l’m fed up now because the time we agreed for her to leave there has expired but she has refused to leave.
Dear Bukky,
I have married for the past 14 years now, God has blessed us with two kids, but we are not staying together because she works in the northern area while l’m in the South.
But now l’m fed up because the time we agreed for her to leave has expired and l am tired of the marriage for now.
Her mother is not helping the matter at all because she's with her there.
Please l need your advice.
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Dear reader,
Don’t give up just yet. I think the first thing to consider your wife and how uneasy it must be, leaving a job that I guess she likes and draws fulfilment from.
If you have been communicating with her before, don’t stop. I think you should do it in a way you would do with a partner as opposed to the authoritative manner you would with an apprentice of employee, so to speak.
Make her see reasons why she belongs with you and not her mum, make her see why the marriage is hinged on you both being together.
A wife always belongs with her husband and not with her folks. I’m sure she knows this, but I believe it is your responsibility to make her see this.
14 years is a long time to work on something and then let it just rot away without trying to salvage it.
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