A lot of people don't do the butt stuff due to pain, but it can be avoided.
So if you've never tried anal sex, you've probably been told it is going to hurt. And if you've seen it in porn, you apparently think it's a crazy acrobatic session.
However, let's remember that, despite public thoughts and porn's obsession with stretching ass limits, there is unlimited potential with ass play. Below are ways to enjoy anal sex without it being painful.
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1. Take it slow
Patience is the best virtue when it comes to anal sex. Everybody always wants to rush to dessert, even though we know we should enjoy the full meal first. However, slowing things down is one of the keys to eradicating pain during the anal sex sesh. When the ass is offered up, it can be hard to resist the temptation of getting right down to business. But, anal really shouldnâ€
t be a quickie type of sex, so try to keep your excitement in check and let the bum fun progress slowly.
2 You can self-experiment
If you are curious about exploring ass pleasure, the best way to experiment is on your own, in your own solo sex bliss, before anybody else gets into your butt business. Start by reaching down while youâ€re already enjoying strong sexual feelings. It is important to get a lay of the land, a true idea of the shape and texture of the anus. Experiencing these sensations on your own will allow you to control the speed and depth of touch and penetration. Youâ€ll be able to teach yourself how to relax your muscles, learn when to slow down when needed and get a sense of how far you think you can push yourself.
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3. Lots of lubrication
When it comes to painless anal sex, you will actually need a lot of lube. Lube is the best friend of anyone who wants anything to do with your butt – and this includes you! This is because the anus does not have natural lubrication like other holes do. You really need to add some slippery stuff to the situation. Trying to penetrate your own or someone elseâ€s bum without lube significantly increases the chances of anal tearing and pain.
Butt Stuff: Here's how to have anal sex that doesn't hurt
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